Hi, Ashley,
I stumbled across your blog today. I’m floundering. My husband has had an issue with porn since he was a teenager (he’s 41 now). Our marriage of ten years has been full of pain over his addiction. We are both Christians and I know he feels ashamed, but not enough to get help. He makes excuses to keep from having to face his demons. I’m at the end of my rope now. We have four children and it isn’t feasible for me to leave because I would certainly take them with me. I’ve given him an ultimatim, but he refuses to acknowledge it, and makes no effort toward getting help. So, we’re just living in constant tension. Not good for the kids, I know, but what else can I do? I’m miserable. I don’t want a divorce. I want him to grow up…to wake up. Do you have any advice? I really just needed to vent to someone who knows what I’m living with.
Thanks!
