Letter from a wife:
Ashley, thank you so so very much for your honesty and convictions. I appreciate your balanced point of view and deeper reflection that helps me with the same confusion that I knew it wasn’t me and didn’t have to do with me, yet I still felt/feel that somehow that was a odd statement because as the wife of a husband addicted I feel so affected by it for it to not have anything to do with me. You have given me insight into my own life and shortcomings. I realize how i have been trying so many different things to help him not struggle, and have found myself unsuccessful each time which fueled my insecurities and caused me to desire other men to desire me in hopes that my husband would desire me and “fantasize” about me instead of porn “stars”. I have been so wrong in doing this and appreciate you telling your story because it helps me focus on my problems. I have been searching and begging God to help me and guide me to be the woman he wants me to be for my husband so that I won’t make things worse and so that i can one day have the intimacy and love experienced when husband and wife are solely dedicated to one another. so once again thank you so very much, Ashley.
