When I discovered my husband’s porn addiction I never thought I’d be here today, writing about the restoration of our marriage and the hearts of porn stars. God had a plan. A bigger plan that I may have missed had I not been willing to forgive and love. My husband and I have published a workbook for couples, based off the beatitudes of Jesus. You can see it here. And I’ve also published a novel about the heartache porn brings to those affected by it. The novel, Exposed (visit website here), was released in September 2010. We will be releasing two workbooks, one just for men and one just for women, sometime in 2011.
I truly love helping women find hope who are going through that same dark tunnel I went through. It seems like there is no possible end, no light. But I assure you there can be. I’m not here to educate people on addictions and porn and recovery. I don’t claim to be a psychologist or professional counselor. But I am here to offer hope to women who feel like they’ll never feel good enough to anyone. I’m here to be a friend. That’s all, but I know that a friend who understands means so much when you’re going through this. I also hope that this blog will serve as an aid in the healing of hearts like mine. My greatest desire is to see marriages, relationships, and love overcome the devastation porn causes.
Please feel free to email me. I am always open to talking to those who have no one around them to open up to. Bottling your emotions inside will never produce a healthy outcome. Never hesitate to contact me. It may seem strange, but I really do love you. I know what you’re going through and it’s not easy. I may not love you like a friend who knows you inside and out, but I love you in the sense of a stranger who feels your pain. -Ashley
